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How many times have we not heard our parents or grandparents put out a statement such as that? These statements are usually not backed up with any type of information or facts, it is merely opinions being tossed out in the open with the hope that they will strike a nerve in someone who lives to please their families, their culture or satisfy their community. What many of our elders fail to understand is that in the west we are taught to fend and live for ourselves. Even though we are unable to forget the clear family values instilled in us by our parents, the societies of the west are more individualistic. You do for others after you have done for yourself...........